the situation because I dont want to waste these years with someone who doesnt have the capacity to commit at this time. I have been dating a man for about 5 months and everything is pretty good. Then, he back peddled and said he prays daily for god to release some of the things in his life. He also said that just because he doesnt have the capacity today it doesnt mean that he wont have it in 2,4, or 6 months.
At least, for the most part. If he were to come around, how would he be in everyday life? I would say that it would be a good move for you to take a look at what your thoughts are on the matter.
For that reason, he might believe (on an emotional level) that if he starts defining commitments that the relationship will go downhill. I processed this and the next day told him that we probably shouldnt talk or see each other anymore. It sounds to me like he wants to have a good relationship he talks about the future, he introduced you to his family, he treats you like a girlfriend. He told me how great I was and that he loved what we have, but at this time, he didnt have the capacity to commit to more. How would local heroe kills 30 registered sex offenders you be in everyday life? The good news is it sounds to me like you do have that. Or maybe he believes that the dating dynamic works a lot better for him than the committed relationship dynamic at this point in time. All I can say is (from what youve told me) is that he sounds like he probably had a rough time with his first marriage and wants to be extra careful this time around. But I believe that things can change as time goes. Do I leave since the one thing I know for certain is that he doesnt have the capacity or enjoy our time together? I said that my future husband would just take my car and I would take his. Try your best to be rational and to avoid jumping to conclusions I say this because when you mentioned that you proposed leaving the relationship after he didnt want to call you his girlfriend, it struck me as kind of an extreme, all-or-nothing type.
He was married for 10 years and has been divorced for about.
His ex still gives him a hard time, but he says that he has moved.
He has custody of one child and she the other.
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